The term difficult suggest that which is uneasy; full of problems. Whereas, situations are all the circumstances and things that are happening at a particular time and in a particular place. The topic in essence has to do with Jesus' response to those circumstances surrounding him that were not easy, that were full of problems, that caused him a lot of troubles.
Troubles will come. Life on earth is tough and are full of struggles and difficult times. Jesus was not ignorant of this fact, therefore he noted, "I have said these things to you, that in me you may have peace. In the world you will have tribulation. But take heart; I have overcome the world” (John 16:33).
Suffering and trials are part of life since the fall when sin entered the world. When one is feeling sorry for oneself about situations he faces, he should not ask "why me? instead ask 'why not me?" James said, "Count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds, for you know that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness. And let steadfastness have its full effect, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing" (1:2-4). All a man needs is the sufficiency of God's grace. Like Paul, Christians all cry for God to take away the thorns in our flesh. But how could we have known the power and sufficiency of the grace of God without thorns in our flesh- 2Corinthians 12:7-9.
If courageous and better character are to be developed, then a world where hardship, risk, pain and difficulty are is needful. In such an environment, how do one react? Let's look at these reactions:
- Elijah questioned: "O Lord my God, have you also brought tragedy on the widow with whom I lodge, by killing her son?" (1Kings 17:20)
- Gideon pondered: "If the Lord is with us why then has all these happened to us" (Judges 6:13)
- Habakkuk complained: Why do you look on those who deal treacherously and hold your tongue when the wicked devours one more righteous than he? Habakkuk 1:13
- Job screamed: "My soul loathes my life: I will give free course to my complaint, I will speak in the betterness of my soul, I will say God do not condemn me: show me why you contend with me. Does it seem good to you that you should oppress, that you should despise the work of your hands, and shine on the council of the wicked- Job 10:1-3.
One person's problem may differ from another person's problem. A man's perception of his problem may help him overcome the problem. On the other hand, his perception makes him a victim. It is real. It must come. Therefore, Christians need to know that:
Difficult situation is either created by an individaul to himself or caused by someone else. Examples; It can be from one's pride, which Solomon says it comes before a fall. Or as a result of one's ignorant of the effect of an action. Or even as a consequence of progratination which not only create difficult situations but amount to sin. When difficult situation is caused by someone, such is always seen as an enemy.
Difficult situation is challenging- it tests one's ability Phillippian 4:11-12- Colin's skills.
A difficult situation is demanding. It demands one's effort. One must drive to do beyond that which is expected of him in difficult times - Romans 12:11 "Be not slothful in business..." (KJV). "Never be lacking in zeal..."(NIV). It also demands one's patience. The singular reason is that the other side of the river holds greater blessing (James 1:12)
Difficult situations test one's identity. Christians ought to remain Christians at all times. No compromise of standards. It must be remembered that nothing is right because of the situation in which it is done, if it is not in itself right.
WHAT DID JESUS DO?
He Appealed to God's word. In Matthew 4:1-11, Jesus told Satan who presented to him difficult situations "It is written..." Therefore, in one's hopeless situations one should always appeal to God's word; for it holds all the encouragement needed.
Jesus prayed. Matthew records in 26:36-46 show that Jesus prayed three times asking God to take the cup (difficult situation) away from him.
- It is ungodly for Christians not to pray in Critical Conditions
- It is human for Christians to pray harder only in Critical Conditions
- It is godly Christians praying always (Hebrews 4:16).
Jesus prayed for the perceived enemies. As recorded in Luke 23:34 Jesus said, "Father forgive them for they do not know what they are doing." Do you pray for the down fall of your enemies? Do you shift blame on someone for the situation you are in? It is one's duty to pray for, not revengefully against one's persecutors (Matthew 5:44,45)
He gave thanks to the Father. In Matthew 14:15-17, it was indeed a difficult situation feeding 5000 men with just two fishes and five loaves of bread. In this situation of little food, Jesus gave thanks. Always appreciate God for the little he has provided and thus committing him to provide even more
Are you struggling throuh difficult time? Do you feel like you cannot cope anymore? Are you struggling financially? Are you trying to cope with the illness or death of a loved one? Do you feel like God is no longer there? Have you no one to turn to? Is it a struggle to get out of bed each morning? Be assured and encouraged that you are not alone- God loves you and will see you through. He is always there for you even when you feel far from Him or cannot feel His presence (John 17:15, 1Peter 5:9-10).
By B. S. David and N. B. Effeh